The power of touch is powerful: If you aren’t in a good mood because you feel upset or tired after a stressful, drama-filled day, always remember: the human touch is miraculous. If your mind wanders to unhappy thoughts about what a chaotic day you had at work, you can always hold your partner’s hand or ask for a backrub because touching someone else can bring back all of your sexiness.

Wear clothes that flatter your body: One of the best ways to boost your mood is to wear clothing that flatters your shape. When you feel good about the way you look, you’ll feel confident, which will put a sassy spring to your step, and it will make you feel sexy. So when going to a romantic evening, make sure to wear something that will make you feel like a million bucks.

Spoil yourself: If you had a bad day and just feel terrible, you can improve your mood and feel sexy by spoiling yourself. Have you ever had a day when you felt terrible, and you take a warm bubble bath and all of a sudden you feel renewed? Well, indulging in some quality pampering time will help melt away all of the stress you had in the day. Some ways to indulge yourself include: taking a warm bath, eating chocolate, getting a mani/pedi, smelling something nice, getting a facial and so forth. Basically, if the activity melts your stress away, it will certainly help you feel better and get you in a sexy state of mind.

Sometimes we don’t feel our best, and when that happens, you can follow these tips so you can feel sexy. Learn more about dating.